Saturday, June 20, 2015

4 Signs of Growth and Maturity

Everyone at some point decides to make changes in their life for a better life. Here are four signs that let you know you are on the right track.

1. Old issues are no longer an issue.
At one point in your life there were certain situations and people that would get you upset with just a simple thought. These same things no longer get any of your attention or energy today which is a sign that you are, as they say, OVER IT!!

2. Out with the old in with the new
Replacing bad habits with new healthier habits is a major sign of growth. It shows that your emotional and physical well being are important to you. Also that you value peace.

3. Moving forward
Anything from your past that is a horrible reminder of where you came from you make a decision to leave it there, in the past. That includes exes, horrible feelings, bad memories, most likely anything that could hinder your progress with growth. Releasing those things and deciding to not look back is showing that you value yourself enough to let go and keep it moving.

4. Accountibility
This one can be a tricky one at times because people will allow other people to hold them accountable for their past. That is not how this works. You hold yourself accountable for what has happened in your life. Be willing to say yes this is what happened in this area and this is my part in it and be done with it. Admitting and explaining are two different things. You don't owe anybody an explanation for decisions you made in your past. Being able to be accountable frees you from a lot of personal guilt and it helps you move along in your growing process.

If you have any other signs that you are growing and maturing I would love to hear from you. Comment below share with friends let's start talking.

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